Summer distraction leads to procrastination...

Summer time is an endless distraction for me. A million things to do, weeds to be pulled, parties to attend and kids to entertain, it's always something.  Distractions... something to take me away from doing what I know what I should be doing but clearly am not (aka Procrastination). Although I have always put my kids first, I find myself feeling guilty enjoying an afternoon together when there are chores to be done or work to be completed. Guilt... I hate that word!

There are 62 days until school starts (yeah, you heard me), and I am loving the long days with my boys. We have been berry picking, swimming at the pool, walks to the park, bike riding on the trails, camping, swimming lessons and occasionally just chillin' in the yard. Distractions!

When I make the time to work on business related things (or even laundry), I do the bare minimum... hence the reason why it's been almost a month since I blogged last.  These distractions are getting the better part of me and instead of fighting it, I am going to embrace what I have to offer and here is how I am going to do it...

1. Cut back. With my time being limited and knowing that things just aren't going to get done, it's time to cut back on some of the "fat". By examining what I have on my plate, I can see where I can start making the changes to relieve myself of some of the "extra" responsibilities. This is not a forever cutback, it's a temporary "hold" so that I can be more available for the things that I need to take care of (you know, my two little distractions).

2. Re-prioritize my goals. When looking at where to cutback, I have to start with my to-do list. If there are things that can sit idle for a while or be trimmed down, that's the first place to start. Less pressure to get so many things done means that when can actually dedicate the time to do the work I can be more focused.

3. Enjoy! We have to enjoy what we do. If we feel like everything is a burden, why do it? If I "feel" like I am getting things done, I am more inclined to press on. Life is too short!

Posted by Megan Spears at 7/8/2009 12:55 PM
Categories: Motivational, Time Management, Tips, Planning, Goals
 

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  • 7/8/2009 3:56 PM Carmen wrote:
    Megan - I applaud you! It's so easy to say cut the fat, but you're actually doing it. That's great, and I think that we need to do more of that these days. The world will not stop turning if we miss laundry day, and you'll forever have those memories with your boys, which is priceless!!!
    1. 7/8/2009 4:15 PM Megan Spears wrote:
      Thanks Carmen, I don't know if applause is in order but it sure does make me feel better to let go. Sometimes I wonder why we get so fixated on holding on that when we finally let go it feels so much better. I hope you are having a good summer and that the weather is enjoyable! Time sure does flyby doesn't it?

  • 7/16/2009 2:01 PM Janice wrote:
    Megan, In our work oriented society we tend to put those non-work distractions low on our priority lists. However, it's the walks in the park, bike riding, berry picking, etc. with our family that makes life worthwhile.

    The children grow up fast! You are not only creating memories for yourself but memories of happy childhoods for your children. Those will last a lot longer than many things on the to-do list.
    1. 7/20/2009 8:30 PM Megan Spears wrote:
      Thank you for stopping by and you are so right, it does go fast. Wouldn't it be great if we didn't have to have a to-do list! Have a super day!

  • 7/23/2009 2:01 PM Cyndi wrote:
    Great suggestions. I dont have kids but I do soooo much in a day sometimes I feel like I'm in reverse...gotta let some of it go now and then!!
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